How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What did someone say to you that instantly made you realize their life was in danger?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Why don’t Jews regard Jesus as an important teacher or rabbi, if not the Messiah? Putting aside messianic claims, wouldn’t Jesus be one of the most significant Jewish teachers in human history?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Who is the most annoying character in the Office?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What habits do happy couples have?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Recently, I cleared my JP Morgan coding round. Next, I received mail for a video interview. What kind of questions are asked in this round? How do I prepare myself?

Making more friends is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you cloned 12 Michael Jordan's and 12 LeBron James' and had Team Jordan vs. James, which team would win the most games?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.